Du Chun’s wife: Whether it is on variety shows or in real life, which family will have no conflicts?

The key is to look at how to get in touch with the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

After 4 years of marriage, Du Chun’s wife Wang Can and her mother-in-law still have conflicts.

In her words, conflicts are something that every family has, not her own problem. After marriage, Wang Can did not live with her mother-in-law, but chose to take care of her children alone. Now after working live, she also hired a nanny.

I can’t understand what conflicts will be between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who are rich but live in different places?

The relationship between Wang Can and her mother-in-law is indeed very subtle. She actually used "others" to describe her mother-in-law in the live broadcast. With these two words alone, we can see that Wang Can’s respect for his mother-in-law is not high, and even has some complaints.

If you have to talk about a big conflict, it should be the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law about the financial power of the family.

In the eyes of many mother-in-law, they will think that they still have the right to manage their son's money.

Wang Can: Our mother-in-law is in charge of our money.

This is what Wang Can said in a variety show when he first got married 4 years ago. Today, four years later, Wang Can does not deny that he has indeed said such things.

However, Wang Can believes that the recording of the program was due to the limited time, so she did not make it clearer.

If you take a closer look, you will find that Wang Can's words are not reasonable enough. She was definitely sincere when she was on the show. When she first got married, her mother-in-law must have been in charge of 100% of her son Du Chun’s income.

Wang Can: Now our daughter is 4 years old, so we just handed over the 20% of the money we earned to our mother-in-law.

We control and control 80% of the money ourselves. And I have my own work income, which is managed by myself.

Don't worry, their family will not treat me badly.

Wang Can still gave himself a decent step. Or she spent 4 years to earn 80% of her husband's income.

Nowadays, the 20% of the money earned by her husband Du Chun is handed over to her mother-in-law to manage, while the money she earned is not handed over to her mother-in-law.

That means that Wang Can currently controls 80% of her husband Du Chun’s income and the money she earns. She is indeed not short of money, so everyone doesn't have to worry about it. She is much happier than an average married woman.

Wang Can claimed that she didn't care about the 20% of the money she handed over to her mother-in-law. Moreover, this money will be used by her and her husband Du Chun to support her or give her daughter in the future.

Wang Can felt somewhat distracted and indifferent. Do you really don't care?

This statement indirectly shows that Wang Can can’t manage finances and can’t even save money. Or is the mother-in-law worried or disagrees with Wang Can’s ability to manage money?

Otherwise, why would Wang Can rely on 20% of the money he gave to his mother-in-law to support himself in his old age?

Suddenly I understood why Wang Can was inappropriate to have a good full-time housewife and insisted on live streaming to make money by selling goods.

With Du Chun's income, Wang Can can fully enjoy the peace of mind at home and be a wife with no worries about food and clothing. But she chose to work and accompany her children.

She mainly wants to be self-reliant and have her own income, so that she will be more confident in front of her mother-in-law. Because she can spend the money she earns.

Wang Can can be said to be awake in the world. She didn't plan to rely on her husband Du Chun 100%, or rather, she didn't feel too secure.

A middle-aged woman's greatest sense of security mainly comes from her own financial independence, followed by a stable mood and a strong mentality.